One time during university, there was some misunderstanding between me and a friend. It was so silly, but it did kind of made me feel weird about that girl.
Days passed by and I never saw her after university until... I saw her at work over here! I felt awkward about it in the beginning but then we started being really good friends. One day while we were hanging out after work, I told her about that incident. She told me that she doesn’t even remember it. We figured out it was a tiny misunderstanding. We both laughed and I am over it now!
Sometimes when I feel weird about something I just keep it in until I talk about it to the person concerned. I feel better when I confront others about what I feel, especially if it was a misunderstanding.
6 comments:
yeah its healthy sometime to talk about our feeling to who it concerned :)
I do that a lot too , but sometimes u feel its not Ok to tell them that cuz they might AGAIN misunderstand you
never happened to me yet :) coz i either tell the very close friend, bcoz i wont tell a friend who doesnt care :)
lol.. I think you should just talk to the person straight away cos the longer you way, the bigger it seems in your mind when it was probably nothing to begin with!
misundertanding is so easy to happen...this is why one should talk about things to make sure everyone is on the same page...
Desert Princess, lol! you are absolutely right!
Sam, and i thought it was just something and it would pass, but apparently it stayed in there until i told her about it!
Thank you very much. This was a great help.
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